Do you have a Christmas memory that stands out as particularly significant? Maybe an incident involving a family member or friend or maybe the year you learned giving was better than receiving? It could be a hodgepodge of memories centering around a family tradition. Have you shared that memory about a Christmas past? We're reading the classic "A Christmas Memory" by Truman Capote for our December Book Club selection. Capote wrote this short story in 1956. He tells of one Christmas when his seven-year-old self and an elderly cousin celebrated in their humble, simple way. A poignant, beautifully written story,...
Do you have family heirlooms hiding away in a trunk or cupboard? Do you know the stories behind each keepsake and have you recorded those stories? One small artifact might be an important key to understanding an ancestor's life. Here are some simple steps you can take now to preserve the memories behind each heirloom. I am the daughter of a keeper of heirlooms. My mother has kept jewelry, clothes, dishes, books, pillows, quilts, and more. When she moved from her home of fifty years, she went through her cedar chest with my sister and me. As we divvied up...
When is the last time you looked at your family tree chart and thought about the dash? The dash as in: Edward Raymond Kelsey 1886-1972 or Rachel Cox 1827-1870. The dash represents everything between birth and death. You might know a lot about your ancestor's life or you might know a little. Your family tree chart doesn't know or care how much you know, all it provides is the dash. It's up to us as family historians to discover the rest of the story. I mentioned this concept of "the dash" in my family history class a few weeks ago and a...
In celebration of Utah's Pioneer Day on July 24, I've been studying my Mormon pioneer ancestors and sharing their stories on Instagram tagged with #MyPioneerAncestor. It has been a fascinating study. For some, their travels were extremely difficult and required many sacrifices. For others, it was a joyous journey and they became so skilled that they traveled the route again and again to help other emigrants. I began by checking out the FamilySearch Pioneer campaign, FamilySearch.org/Pioneers. It scans your family tree against the Mormon Pioneer Overland Travel database (created by the Church History Library) and creates a list of your ancestors who came to Utah from 1847-1868. (In May...
"It's impossible not to love someone whose story you've heard." This truth was spoken by David Isay of StoryCorps during his keynote at the Friday Opening Session of the RootsTech conference. The message of StoryCorps left a lasting impression on me as Isay beautifully illustrated how hearing stories of even strangers creates a connection. Most of my ancestors are strangers to me - but through their stories I feel a deep connection to them. "Every story matters." -David Isay, StoryCorps Do you believe that every story matters? I sure do. Stories have always been my favorite part of family history. When I first really delved into...
Do you have a quilt in your closet with no clue who made it or why? Or maybe you have a stack of clothes from a loved one that you'd like to make into a quilt? Either way, a quilt can be a lasting way of preserving memories. I have a rich heritage of quilting in my family. Four generations of women snipped and sewed to create colorful and practical quilts that are a piece of our family's history. Starting with my great grandmother's, here are four different quilts and the lessons I've learned from each one. Quilt #1...
After Christmas, my 5 year old was devastated to take down the tree, lights, and ornaments. So we quickly replaced the Christmas tree with our Valentine's Day decorations! A couple years ago I started decorating for Valentine's Day with old (and new) family photos of weddings. These are some of my favorite wedding photos from our family: Here's how I decorated last year: And this is what I came up with this year: I framed a pretty card that I saved from our wedding. The rest are pictures of my parents, grandparents, and my husband's grandparents. At the piano I used pictures...
Today is Veteran's Day. This is a simple holiday where all we need to do is honor and remember those who sacrificed to preserve our freedoms. So to celebrate, I am honoring and remembering six of the many men in my life who joined the massive effort known as World War II. Each had unique experiences and each deserves to have their story told. All of them came home from the war and all of them have since passed away. Do I know enough about their experiences to fully tell their stories? Not by any means. But I do know enough to...
We all have them - ancestor stories that tend to be hushed up: illegitimate children, desertion, abuse, mental illness, etc. We call these life details "skeletons in the closet" because we like to imagine our ancestor's lives as near perfect and may be tempted to bury these skeletons. What do we do when our family history research uncovers something unexpected? Recording these kind of details can be difficult. How do we tell our ancestor's story with integrity and kindness? When we first stumble upon a skeleton in the closet we may feel many different emotions: disbelief, anger, sorrow, and denial to name a few....
Do you have pioneer ancestors who joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) in the 1800's and came west to join the saints in Zion? The LDS church began emphasizing family history about 1890, so you may think that those branches of your family tree are complete and accurate. Just looking at your fan chart on FamilySearch's Family Tree, it might seem that there are no more family members to discover. In reality, our pioneer lines may be reasonably accurate up to a point, but the dates, places, and relationships are often based on family knowledge and...
